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Power and Wise Boundaries: What Church Leaders Must Learn
Posted on: Tuesday March 31, 2026

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Let’s get honest.
Power makes most of us uncomfortable.
So we avoid it, minimize it, or misuse it.

In this episode, Pete Scazzero shares a defining leadership failure—one that cost him deeply: relationships, trust, and a 20-year community.

At the center of it?
Unclear boundaries and dual relationships.

You’ll discover:

  • Why every leader must name and steward their power
  • The danger of trying to be both a friend and a supervisor
  • How blurred roles quietly damage teams and culture
  • Why the burden of boundaries always falls on the leader
  • What it means to do the inner work required for healthy leadership

This is not about leadership theory.
It’s about formation.

Because if you don’t deal with power and boundaries, they will deal with you.

Reserve your spot at our upcoming Global Leaders Conference.
September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

Register Now: https://ehd.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3421612

Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Archives:
Tuesday September 21, 2021

If you've come to the end of yourself, you're not alone. On today's podcast, Pete shares with you a message that he believes is timely and encouraging.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Tuesday September 14, 2021

Today, Pete gives you a sneak peek of his wife Geri's new podcast, Emotionally Healthy Woman. The first episode is called "Quit Being Afraid of What Other People Think".

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Tuesday September 07, 2021

In this interview, Pete shares some treasures of church history and why they are vitally important for the leaders of today and tomorrow.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Tuesday August 31, 2021

In today's podcast, Pete invites you to listen along as he walks through these three habits detailed in his book Emotionally Healthy Discipleship.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Tuesday August 24, 2021

In today's podcast, Pete shares with you a passage that has been instrumental for him as a leader. The scene comes from Mark 15 where Jesus is lonely on the cross. Pete then offers some encouragement for how God comes to us, even in His silence.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Tuesday August 17, 2021

In today's episode, Pete offers encouragement by drawing attention to the enormous power of Jesus in the face of evil.

Mark chapter 5 offers us the most graphic story in all of the New Testament. In this story, Jesus confronts a man filled with a legion of demons. And in Jesus' presence, this man is freed and restored to his right mind.

This kind of power is available to us all in Christ.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Tuesday August 10, 2021
In today's episode, Pete shares with you a sermon from the gospel of Mark which was written during a time of horrific persecution. Jesus shares a story that points to the reality of spiritual warfare and invites us to overcome the evil one through His power alone.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Tuesday August 03, 2021

When power and dual relationships in your church are not carefully considered, you may be on the road to deep pain, confusion, and division.

In this episode, Pete reads five case studies from leaders who are navigating this delicate tension and he draws from difficult personal lessons he's learned to offer leadership wisdom.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Tuesday July 27, 2021

Today, Pete shares with you an excerpt of an interview he recently did for Preaching Today. In this interview, Pete shares 6 questions that you must ask if you want to learn how to preach from the inside out.

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September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

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Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference


Tuesday July 20, 2021

Today, Pete shares an excerpt from a chapter in his recent book, Emotionally Healthy Discipleship, called "Follow the Crucified, not the Americanized Jesus".

It's one of the most important chapters in the book. Within it, he explores four temptations from the Evil One that come to all of us –  regardless of our culture, country, age, demographic, or ministry

Reserve your spot at our upcoming Global Leaders Conference.
September 30 – October 1, 2026
14th St. Salvation Army, NYC
(Live Spanish Translation available)

Register Now: https://ehd.churchcenter.com/registrations/events/3421612

Learn more about the EH Global Leader Conference 2026: emotionallyhealthy.org/conference