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Tag Archives: Lamentations

Earthquakes and Transformation (Pilgrimage Reflection 5)

Last week,Ā Geri and I found spent 2 nights in Christchurch, NZ in the midst of a neighborhood devastated by the earthquake of Feb. 11, 2011. People talked about their losses at our conference much like we did in NYC after 9/11. 9/11 didnā€™t transform us as the church in NYC ā€“ long term. Why? I donā€™t believe we allowed Godā€™s gift of losses to do its deep work in our soul. The following is an adaptation from The Emotionally Healthy Church: Updated and Revised, 2010. I lay it out here for my new friends in New Zealand as well as a pause for all pastors and leaders who are reading this today. Biblical grieving has three phases: 1. Phase 1: Pay Attention Deeply. The ancient Hebrews physically expressed their laments by tearing their clothes and utilizing sackcloth and ashes. During Noahā€™s generation, Scripture indicates God was grieved about the state of humanity (Gen. 6).. Read more.

Sorrow that Transforms – Newtown, CT

We join the families of those twenty children as we watch their funerals – two yesterday and, probably, more today. Jeremiah wrote a book called Lamentations in the midst of his unspeakable horror. David wrote two-thirds of the Psalms out of his pain. Consider the words of Gerald Sittser. May they serve you as they have served me. In A Grace Disguised, after the horrific loss of his daughter, wife, and mother in a car accident, he wrote: ā€œCatastrophic loss by definition precludes recovery. It will transform us or destroy us, but it will never leave us the same. There is no going back to the pastā€¦It is not therefore true that we become less through loss ā€“ unless we allow the loss to make us less, grinding our soul down until there is nothing leftā€¦Loss can also make us more. I did not get over the loss of my loved ones; rather, I. Read more.

Midday Staff Prayer — Julian of Norwich

NLF Staff Midday Prayer Sept. 26, 2012 Stillness and Silence – 2 minutes to be still First Reading: Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ps. 146 1 Praise theĀ Lord.Praise theĀ Lord,Ā my soul. 2 I will praise theĀ LordĀ all my life;I will sing praiseĀ to my God as long as I live.3 Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings,Ā who cannot save. 4 When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. 5 Blessed are thoseĀ whose helpĀ is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in theĀ LordĀ their God 6 He is the Maker of heavenĀ and earth, the sea, and everything in themā€”he remains faithfulĀ foreverā€¦TheĀ LordĀ lifts up those who are bowed down… TheĀ LordĀ reignsĀ forever,Ā  your God, O Zion, for all generations.Ā  Praise theĀ Lord. Second Reading – Lamentations 3: 21-27 21 Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: 22 Because of theĀ Lordā€™s great loveĀ we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. 23 They. Read more.

Lamenting Leadership

What might it mean for the leadership of a church or ministry to embrace the lamenting of loss as part of her life together? Ā What might it mean for your life or mine? I have spent the last two weeks absorbed in the book of Lamentations, reading, meditating, pondering, and praying the words of Jeremiah as my own. The exercise was transformative and, yes, quite painful. What is most interesting is that in I have written chapters on grief and loss in two different books. Yet I felt like I was approaching the theme for the first time. What did God show me anew? 1. Both the love of God and suffering are foundational paths to genuine transformation. Suffering opens us up uniquely to God, ourselves and others, forcing us to slow down and reflect. I have missed transforming moments from God, both personally and for New Life, because of my unwillingness to remain. Read more.